Suddenly Single Woman’s Guide to Surviving Divorce: Learn The Things No One Tells You. Get What You Deserve: Financial Security, Emotional & Physical Stability, Manage Expectations of Family & Friends. Lynda Lighthouse Transier had been married thirty years when her husband, after having multiple affairs, unexpectedly filed for divorce. This book is a personal reflection on what women have to do to make it through divorce, recover on the other side, and regain their balance in life. In the quest to survive an unwanted divorce, many roadblocks arise that blindside women, creating havoc and swamping their lives like feeder bands of rain in a hurricane. The hurdles may be legal, financial, relational, emotional, physical, or spiritual. As one who has been through it all, and walked with other women through it all, Lynda tells it like it is, helping women face their current reality, anticipate hidden potholes, grasp onto resources old and new, and hang on until their boat stops rocking. And it will stop rocking! All the while, Lynda interjects humor and the empathetic voice of a good friend, helping women emerge on the other side more whole than they ever imagined and able to (as author H. Jackson Brown wrote) “live so that when your children think of fairness, caring, and integrity, they think of you.” Live so that when your children think of fairness and integrity, they think of you" my mantra. If ever there was a time to practice "The Golden Rule", it is when you are navigating the life altering, blindsiding divorce process. Lynda's goal is to help you through the quicksand, and provide you with a lifeline of insight how to come out the other side a happier, healthier and more wholly satisfied "suddenly single" woman.